Interactive Trajectory Loving Boundaries: Dealing with Undesirable Behavior

Unwanted behavior Lovingly set limits: "No behavior is random. All behavior meets a need." - Aletha Solter When we keep this in mind, it quickly becomes clear why responses like: "No! And stop now! Because I say so! That's why!" don't work! These don't take into account the unfulfilled need! AND You probably experienced these kinds of limits as a child & this is therefore your only technique. (authoritarian and/or indulgent) Maybe you feel that this doesn't work for you & your child, and you want it to be different but you don't know how? I HEAR YOU! It can be different! 👉🏼In this process we will look at the different types of boundaries, 👉🏼you will receive tools to indicate your own boundaries in a loving way, 👉🏼you will learn to recognize when your child 'needs' a loving boundary, 👉🏼AND when there is another need behind the behavior! Because yes, children have many needs, if we learn to recognize and fulfill these, the behavior will often stop by itself 🪄 Are you ready to discover the deeper causes of behavior and create lasting changes in your life and that of your children? This method offers more than just a loving approach to unwanted behavior - I help you understand what the REAL reason is behind both your behavior and that of your children. By looking beyond the surface and addressing the core of the behavior, you will see how behavior naturally diminishes and disappears. This approach focuses on the unfulfilled needs that underlie behavior, allowing you to achieve effective and long-lasting results. Unlike traditional methods that focus only on punishment and reward – and therefore only treat symptoms – this is a profound solution. Do you want to learn how to recognize and address the TRUE causes behind behavior? Join us and discover the power of insight and change! Let's go!